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Beyond "JUST" and "ONLY": Embracing My Identity As A Stay-At-Home Mom

Transitioning from a fast-paced career to the world of stay-at-home mom has totally reshaped my life. As a millennial who was all about those career highs and LinkedIn updates, stepping into the world of school runs, baby-and-me classes, and endless “what’s for lunch/dinner?” decisions initially felt like a major downgrade. Instead of strategic meetings, I’m now strategizing the best ways to dodge toddler meltdowns and baby blowouts, and squeezing in study sessions for my professional certification during nap times and after bedtimes. It’s easy to slip into saying I’m “just” a mom, as if I’m not also rocking a ton of invisible work every day.

My daily interactions have shifted drastically too. Gone are the days of brainstorming with coworkers over coffee. Now, it’s more about swapping parenting hacks with other moms at the playground or baby classes, often yearning for more adult conversation that doesn't revolve around dinosaurs, The Wiggles, or potty training.

Despite these shifts, I've come to see the immense value in my new everyday life. An article from Harvard Business Review resonates with me deeply, discussing how parenting skills like multitasking, empathy, and crisis management are super transferable to workplace leadership ("Being a Parent Made Me a Better Manager, and Vice Versa").

I’m not "just" studying; I'm gearing up to merge my professional goals with my crucial role at home. I'm not "only" running the household; think of me as the CEO of my domestic domain, crafting strategies and executing plans that nurture and empower my family's well-being.This isn’t a step back; it's a diversified investment in my future and my family's.

Our career paths are as unique as we are, and personal growth comes in many forms. A brilliant piece from Women Empowerment Worldwide Leadership highlights this, noting that diversifying your professional journey, including stints like parenting, can massively enhance your emotional depth and strategic thinking ("Unleashing Your Potential: The Power of Diverse Career Paths").

So, to my fellow millennial moms, whether you're balancing work and home or fully immersed in family life—let's redefine what success looks like. We’re not just surviving; we’re thriving in our roles. Let's ditch the "just" and own our journey with all its chaos and beauty. We're enough—more than enough, actually. Here’s to embracing every part of our multifaceted lives with confidence and killer strategy.

Guest contributor Donna Akinola wrote this blog. Donna is a mom of two who recently left the corporate world to be a stay-at-home Mom.